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New York is overflowing with queer energy - yet meeting someone genuinely compatible can feel impossible. Apps are chaotic. Bars are loud. DMs are a battlefield.
Cuff It creates a third option: curated, joyful, drag-hosted speed dating for every identity under the queer umbrella.
Whether you're looking for love, lust, long-term, short-term, or just a fun story to tell your group chat... Cuff It delivers an IRL connection you cannot get anywhere.
hosted weekly and monthly across NYC by nightlife legends, Cuff It transforms into a show, a spectacle, and an experience.
"I was nervous to go so i bought a wingman ticket to check it out before i decided to participate later." - Hk Gay
"I was nervous to go so i bought a wingman ticket to check it out before i decided to participate later." - Hk Gay
WhY Cuff It Works
WhY Cuff It Works
(And why NYC can't stop talking about it.)
❤️ Real Conversations. Zero awkwardness.
We guide the night, set the tone, and ensure you're talking to people who actually match your vibe - no wasted rounds.
💋 Drag hosts who make flirting feel effortless.
Stasi, Lola Latte, and rotating icons break the ice, keep things flowing, and make you laugh your way into love.
🌈 Designed for every queer identity.
Gay speed dating weekly.
Sapphic, Bi, T4T, and Ace sessions monthly.
Each event is structured for your dating dynamics.
✨ Match notifications + first-date perks.
The next day, we tell you who you matched with - and invite you both back for a free VIP reunion round.
🍾 Premium nightlife experience.
Editorial vibes. Neon glow. Sexy design.
This isn't speed dating...
this is so much more.
How It Works
How It Works
Buy your ticket (Wingman, GA, VIP)
VIP gets upgraded perks - special seating workflow, priority check-in, exclusive surprises, and return-date privileges.
Show up ready to flirt.
Doors at 6:00 PM.
Drag show at 6:30 PM.
Rules at 6:50 PM.
Speed dating starts at 7:00 PM sharp.
After each round, record your yes/no.
Submit matches by midnight.
Next day: we notify you of your match(es).
Return next week for your first date - hosted by local drag legends.
You become NYC's next queer power couple.
Or at a minimum: a juicy story.
Who is Cuff It For?
Who is Cuff It For?
For tops, bottoms, switches, femmes, masc4mascs, masc4femmes.
For dolls, twinks, bears, sapphics, soft bois, thembos, theydies, gentlethems, kings, queens, and everyone in between.
If you're queer and single (or open), there's a Cuff It night designed for you.
Join the Mailing list
Join the Mailing list
Be the first to know what is going on.
Members get access to all things HKNY Entertainment.
Lock In Your Spot. Unlock Possibility.
Lock In Your Spot. Unlock Possibility.
Cuff It is m ore than speed dating.
It's a queer ecosystem of connection, joy, and discovery.
Your next crush, situationship, soulmate, or scandal might be one seat away.
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